Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Appreciate, Before It's Too Late

Feb 11th .Dark??.

For these few days, Maggie and Jordan has been in this huge fight, that might cost their relationship. One day, they were talking on MSN, and then Jordan said 'be right back' and right when he came back, he's said 'back', and he waited for a minute or two, and no one answered and he said, 'Well I guess you don't want to talk to me, bye' and now they are angry at each other. Maggie has been telling many people about the fight, which is one thing that I don't understand. Isn't a fight in a relatinoship between you and him? Why do you have to spread it to everyone? I mean, when you're sad you'll need someone to talk to, but you don't have to tell all your friends and make them choose sides. They fought on Saturday and it's already Wednesday. If they don't solve this by themselves it's going to get harder and harder to talk...and if they don't talk they break up. Jordan just called Maggie a few hours ago and tried to solve the problem but it didn't work. I just think that Maggie should know and thank Jordan for always trying his best as a boyfriend. Jordan is still like a little kid. For a little kid to try and tell her how he feels and actually call her...that's a lot for a little kid like him. When Feilong gave me a Christmas card, Maggie got irratated at Jordan because Jordan always thinks of buying gifts for her, and why can't he just make something like Feilong. But the fact is, is that Jordan already spent over 70 bucks buying a relationship necklace. Everyone has their own way of giving a gift. Feilong draws. He buys something. She has to accept Jordan for who he is, she can't mold him to something different, because she wouldn't be loving Jordan she would be loving someone she created. Jordan told his parents that he has a girlfriend. He actually had the guts to tell his parents, and Maggie is still not appreciating what he did and still complains about his effort for this relationship. She doesn't have the guts to tell her parents herself. Many people think that Jordan doesn't try hard at all, but for a person that still acts like a 8 year old, and has trouble saying how he feels, he's already doing a lot for her. She has to understand that he's different from a normal guy. He's still a little kid inside. He's trying so hard that he's crying endlessly for her. He said he's sorried, I know that that doensn't solve everything, but at least that's a start...right? He saved up all his money to buy a necklace for her (He doesn't have allowance), he told his parents he's going out for her, he drew a card for her just becuase she was complaining, he always said sorry when he actually didn't do anything wrong, he always carried her books for her, he always called her to see if she was ok, and he didn't say a word when she made him improve each class by a whole letter each term. There are a lot more things that he did for her that I probably don't know of. But those couple of examples are enough aren't they? What else can Maggie ask for in Jordan?

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